Introduction:
Selling Self help Ebooks is big business.
It seems that millions of people, just like you and me, are seeking ways to improve their lot in life.
You are looking for ways to changes in life, her life works. They hope to feel better about themselves.
They are seeking spiritual self help; they’re looking for AHA moments.
People look for self help books because they are unhappy with some aspect of their life.
Mary Engelbreit:
“If you don’t like something, change it; if you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.”
There is a common pattern: you see ads, you like their commitments, and said it for me. You buy their products, then you do nothing.
Most people read a book then set it aside and wonder why their life hasn’t changed.
People pay thousands of dollars every year for self help:
??Webinars
??Seminars
??Classes
??Ecourses
??Books and Ebooks?
??Videos and CDs
And at the end of all that, their life situation remains the same.
Why?
Victor Frankle says it so well
“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”
Most people want the book to change them. It doesn’t work that way.
To bring about a change in your life you must be willing to change.
People are often dissatisfied with present conditions.
They are dissatisfied about some aspect of their present life:
??Relationships
??Finances
??Health
??Spiritual quests
??Spiritual itch
??Or they simply feel that life sucks
Who are these people? Anyone who is not satisfied with life.
People of all ages, sizes and characteristics are searching for:
??A better way
??A more peaceful life
??More money
??Better sex
??Improved relationships
??Self knowledge
People of all ages seek to improve their life through:
??Self change
??Changing partners
??New cars
??Sex and drugs
??Self help books
??Other personal growth tools
Peoples’ unhappiness is Big Business.
Mignon Mclaughlin:
“It’s the most unhappy person who most fears change.”
With the current economic down turn many more people are experiencing dissatisfaction and depression.
Buy self-help products have a good time alignment. While, many more than we asked for relief of severe economic times, I'm looking for a better feel of the course of their actions.
Author Unknown:
“ If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies.”
Most people buy their self-help ebooks online. There are millions of sites offering self-help books, eCourses, videos and CDs.
Some have something to offer and others are simply junk.
So how do you know?
How do you keep from getting ripped off?
There is some gazillion self-help tapes, books, seminars and eCourses available and unfortunately many of them are rip offs.
How do you protect yourself?
??Visit reputable sites
??Read reviews
??Read Blogs
??Join forums on self help
??Read testimonies
??Visit our web site.
Find out if the site provides you with contact information:
??A name
??An email
??An address
??A phone number
If a site doesn’t provide you with some means of contacting them, Don’t Buy!
How to effect real change in your life.
Author Unknown:
"God blessed me the serenity to accept the people I can not change, courage to change, I can, and wisdom is me."
Once you find a product you feel good about, buy it.
Then you must do the footwork. Don’t expect the book to change you. You must change you.
Joan Wallach Scott:
“Those who expect moments of change to be comfortable and free of conflict have not learned their history.”
Rosanne Cash:
“The key to change . . . is to let go of fear.”
Summary
Life changes can only be done by you.
Even the best books, of course, seminars, lectures, video, if you do not act, there will be no change.
No matter how good or bad the material you buy, if you won’t treat and move the feet, nothing changes.
I like these quotes; they sum it up well.
Bruce Barton:
“When you are through changing, you are through.”
Ellen Glasgow:
“The only difference between a rut and a grave is their dimension.”
Copyright ? Wee Dilts 2010